I am paying $50 more to fly with an extra bag that is 50 pounds, which is stowed in the belly of the plane not hurting anyone’s comfort. Yet this person who is at least 100 pounds overweight, and impacts the comfort of others doesn’t pay for those two suitcases worth of fat they are carrying on their body.

I come from a family of overweight individuals, and I see the decisions they make that lead to their weight problems. There is no reason for them to want to be skinnier because society tolerates it and doesn’t want to hurt their feelings. Maybe charging someone based on their weight will be a step in the right direction for this overweight country to shed some weight.

I watch what I eat, I exercise religiously, yet I still pay the same as the person next to me who spills in to my seat because the only exercise they get is lifting a one liter of Dr. Pepper and a king size Snickers to their mouth every half-hour.

I can tell you that most of what is said on here is correct. First, the entire time that I was dating and waiting on the K-1 Visa for my now wife American women I knew bad mouthed foreign women and men that dated them. It was astounding. I could have brought home a terrorist and got less flak than what I did by dating a mail order bride.

Second, international dating is not cheap. But I’m a 2 in the looks department and she is a 12 so for me the gamble was worth it. Even to this day people look at us and try to fiqure out what the heck she sees in me. As for me I wake up every morning and ask myself the same question as to how I got so lucky.

Third there are con men out there posing as women and I find that men that get taken by these cons are usually the guy that decides he can find a mail order bride on his own and doesn’t need an agency (I used http://LovedbyHer.com ) or the man that decides that women just want him for his citizenship and money. (It seems from my perspective that evil attracts evil in these circumstances).

In my situation I dated women so beautiful I often thought it was a dream before I met my “keeper”. While dating my wife she never ask for a dime, told me outright she would prefer to marry someone from Western Europe because it was closer to her country (Ukraine) and that if I thought money was the most important thing in a relationship she wasn’t interested in me.

Years later I realize what a fool I was to assume that everyone else in the world wanted to come to America. Likewise, foolish is the man that thinks every foreign mail order bride is just after your money. I met NONE that gave me any idea they wanted me for money and I dated dozens over a several year period.

I remember that at first I adjusted my profile a dozen times or so just to try and weed out requests from undesireables, but it didn’t work, and only made me sound pickier than I am. In the end, I gave up; 97% of the men on these Web sites–especially the ones who pay enough to contact us directly–are not men we’d want to talk to, online or in real life.

I’m also very unforgiving toward men with no game. Sure, you may have great personality qualities, killer looks, a great job, and you may even want committment; but how good is any of that if you can’t even muster the balls or intelligence to win the attention of a woman you’re interested in?